Elusive Nerd Girl Commodity.

Ask a Cute Nerd girl is my personal collection of cute and nerdy lady friends. I have spent my time on earth as of now amassing a pretty fucking sweet collection, if I do say so myself. I have somehow managed to coerce them into transforming together into regional panel here to advise you upon anything from the everyday nuances of life to your deepest, darkest, dirtiest secrets. We don't claim to know it all. We do all have vaginas though.

Please write to us! We will answer. All emails are received and reviewed by Mary. To ask a question of the panel:

Email Mary

I will distribute anything that is not plain ol' porn** to my remaining beautiful and sensitive ladies. We will publish your questions along with our collective responses.
If you wish to remain anonymous to the internet public, I will respect your wishes.
Pretty much anything you send me, I own.
**I reserve the right to laugh at and publish any porn sent to me.

11/19/07

What a cute nerd girl looks for in a boy?

I'm curious as to what a cute nerd girl looks for in a boy?

Do you tend to seek out likeminded nerd boys, or do you tend to date more outside of the nerd herd? If the answer is the former, are there certain traits of nerd boys which can make or break it for you? Is social awkwardness an endearing trait, or do you prefer your men to be outgoing, and socially confident but with "nerd"-y interests? If it's the latter, why do you think that as a nerdy girl you don't tend to date nerdy guys?

~Jeff

MARY
I date nerds almost exclusively. I don't think I do this intentionally. Those just happen to be the men I appeal to that also appeal to me. I have also dated a handful of musicians. I prefer nerds. We have more to talk about and we like the same movies. There are many folks in this world that dislike sci-fi and documentaries. That makes up my entire Netflix queue along with my soft spot for horror.

It is always hot to see someone do something they are knowledgeable of or are good at. Nerds tend excel in something or another.

I love me some social awkwardness. I can be awkward myself. It is always comforting when you are with someone that is just as goofy as you are. I would stay away from overtly girly shrieks as far as things to avoid go.

Nerds tend to be more considerate and appreciative lovers. There was a Dawn & Drew show about this very subject not too long ago. I think I even found the article they were talking about:
http://www.gleemagazine.com/glee/article.cfm/cmi_1941672/cid_37

NESSA
I look for intelligence. I do have to say public awkwardness turns me on. I don't know why but it does. If I dated out side the nerd circle I would be bored and annoyed by them. If you are too cool, then go date some stupid girl who loves The Hills.

LAUREN
Depends.

I seek intelligence first and foremost. Anyone can be visually attractive, but it's what happens when the verbal exchange begins that'll get me feverish. I do find social awkwardness endearing; my love for quiet introspective boys is probably out of hand. Although my current boy du jour is pretty much the text book definition of extrovert, I don't think that people should have to fit into any stereotype, awkward nerd or otherwise.

Besides, there's no "nerdy guy" setting for my vagina.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

STC WE ARE THE GREATEST

Anonymous said...

I am also a girl that is atracted to nerdy boys. I would say the hole awkwardness of a first kiss is my favorite. They seem like i can have fun because they are being themselves,